"People change all the time and forget to tell each other."
Lillian Gershwin
A little over a week ago, on a wholly blessed trip back home to the Pacific Northwest, I did it. I chopped off my hair. It was a spur of the moment decision, one only made at a trusted salon and with my super supportive sweetheart by my side. I have no idea how to style it each morning (Have I mentioned that I have the lowest-maintenance beauty regimen ever?), but the change was made.
You're probably wondering where I am going with this. It's not often that I choose to talk about my hair (it's pretty unspectacular, as far as I am concerned)... but stay with me. For the first few days, I was deeply aware of the transition -- trying to find my way around a blow-dryer again, grateful for excited comments from family and friends. But, after a few days, after returning to Flagstaff and daily routines, I found myself completely forgetting that, just last week, I had a set of long, luscious locks. Co-workers and friends would comment about my "new do," and I would find myself searching for a few moments to remember that I did indeed look strikingly different from the last time they had seen me. The novelty, the conscious recognition of change had worn off, and it took friends, family, the outside world to remind me that there had indeed been a transformation.
Last week, on my Facebook page (have you had a chance to "like" it yet?), I shared a link to a blog post by Danielle LaPorte on Celebrating Your Evolution. In the post, she speaks about recognizing our transformation, acknowledging our changes and, as the title would suggest, celebrating our evolution!
I am regrettably about a month behind in recognizing this, but, in August, To Live Boldly celebrated it's one year anniversary! Can you believe it? One year of reflection, 365 days of self-disclosure, 12 months of transformations in vulnerability and wellness. A year of experimentation, of introspection, and of growth. A year of falling on my face, of risk-taking, of blunders that lead to joyful self-discovery.
Danielle's post inspired me to think about this past year of life in Flagstaff and the transformations, both painful and natural, that have occurred from taking this big, fat risk. How do I see the world differently? Where have my priorities changed? How do I look at myself differently now? My partner? My loved ones?
My world has changed dramatically. I still seek and search and honestly have no idea what the future will bring, but I have discovered passion and self-acceptance and greater depths of joy. My relationships have transformed, growing deeper as they change shape. My desires for myself, my future, my health have shifted, and my ability to prioritize my joy is finally taking form.
I have been anxiously awaiting the shift into a new season -- there is a refreshing newness that comes with the turning of the leaves -- and what better time to take a moment to celebrate all that has transformed since we last welcomed Autumn?
What about you? Whether in the last month, last year, or last ten years, take a moment to appreciate your transformation.
Last week, on my Facebook page (have you had a chance to "like" it yet?), I shared a link to a blog post by Danielle LaPorte on Celebrating Your Evolution. In the post, she speaks about recognizing our transformation, acknowledging our changes and, as the title would suggest, celebrating our evolution!
I am regrettably about a month behind in recognizing this, but, in August, To Live Boldly celebrated it's one year anniversary! Can you believe it? One year of reflection, 365 days of self-disclosure, 12 months of transformations in vulnerability and wellness. A year of experimentation, of introspection, and of growth. A year of falling on my face, of risk-taking, of blunders that lead to joyful self-discovery.
Danielle's post inspired me to think about this past year of life in Flagstaff and the transformations, both painful and natural, that have occurred from taking this big, fat risk. How do I see the world differently? Where have my priorities changed? How do I look at myself differently now? My partner? My loved ones?
My world has changed dramatically. I still seek and search and honestly have no idea what the future will bring, but I have discovered passion and self-acceptance and greater depths of joy. My relationships have transformed, growing deeper as they change shape. My desires for myself, my future, my health have shifted, and my ability to prioritize my joy is finally taking form.
I have been anxiously awaiting the shift into a new season -- there is a refreshing newness that comes with the turning of the leaves -- and what better time to take a moment to celebrate all that has transformed since we last welcomed Autumn?
What about you? Whether in the last month, last year, or last ten years, take a moment to appreciate your transformation.
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